To be in the men's team is the blue dream of many ladies. But women's ideas about working in a male team are, for the most part, just illusions. And it is not quite easy for a woman to get comfortable and work among men. In order not to get into a mess and it is easier to get used to the male team, if you happen to work in this, take into account the following tips:
Instructions
Step 1
Not a weak link, but an equal player.
Ladies expect that in the men's team, as in life, they will be weak, defenseless, and their male colleagues will protect them from their bosses and help them in their work. But in war, as in war. Come to work, work on a par with men. In the men's team there is a tough struggle for money and success, there are winners and losers. And you need to play these games with men on equal terms!
Step 2
Unisex style.
It will not be possible to impress colleagues with outfits and jewelry. All these feminine things like ruffles, mini-skirts, fashionable perfumes are very annoying for men in the workplace, distracting from business. In order not to feel like an outcast, it is not at all necessary to wear pants or a man's suit. Just do not wear too feminine clothes to work and add masculine details to your wardrobe - jackets, vests, scarves.
Step 3
Become a pro.
Many people think that it is necessary to flirt more with male colleagues, everyone will look after, you see, someone will make an offer. Men at work evaluate their female colleagues primarily by their usefulness to the cause. They do not like coquettes, a priori they are considered mindless fools and try to survive. You can only draw attention to yourself by becoming a pro. Even the most malevolent male team will bow to professionals of either gender.
Step 4
Chameleon woman.
Should I forget that you are a woman and become a boyfriend or a boyfriend? Better to be the one, and the other, and the third. Psychologists believe that in a male team it is easier for a female chameleon to survive, which can be different, depending on the situation. Today is an iron lady, tomorrow is femininity itself.
You cannot fully adapt to the male style of behavior, this is fraught with a nervous breakdown.
Step 5
There are many colleagues, no friends
Very rarely, a woman can establish purely friendly relations with one of her colleagues. First of all, men come to work to realize their ambitions, and not to be friends. In addition, they are afraid of excessive female emotionality. Men hate when they are "loaded" with women's problems.
The main female illusion that it is difficult to get accustomed to a male team is wrong. If you go to work to work, and not sit out working hours, if you are aimed at achieving success, and not looking for a husband, if you have knowledge, skills and a sense of humor, you will eventually become an irreplaceable member of the male team.
