Every man can experience difficulties in relationships with the opposite sex. If you are unlucky with girls all the time, then most likely you need to start by changing the way you think about relationships with them.
Instructions
Step 1
The stereotypes that the media impose on us about relationships are far from true living relationships. The fact is that advertising, in which you see a role model, is aimed primarily at making you buy a product, and not at all at teaching you how to build relationships with girls. And the image formed by advertising is difficult for any guy to achieve. Do not hope that by buying a new perfume, or starting to make a lot of money, you will immediately become a coveted object for all girls.
Step 2
If you have a decent amount of money, but you yourself are not interesting in communication, then the girls you can count on are freebie lovers. The rest of you will simply ignore. Therefore, in order to interest a girl at the first meeting, start by developing the necessary qualities. Then they themselves will want to communicate with you.
Step 3
Any person is judged by their appearance. As long as the girl doesn't know you, your appearance and behavior will play a big role. You should radiate a positive mood, your shoulders should be straightened, and a slight smile on your face. Keep straight.
Step 4
Any relationship is established through conversation. If you see a beautiful girl, or you have a girlfriend in mind, then approaching her to start a conversation do not hesitate for a long time. Otherwise, she may think that you are a "brake". The faster you react and say a phrase, the less meaning it will make. It is better to think over a few phrases in advance so as not to think for a long time. Also work out several answers to her words. Just don't turn your conversation into interrogation. Keep it casual with jokes and gags. If the girl answers your answers and asks her own, then the conversation has started.
Step 5
Try to find a topic during the conversation that she enjoys talking about. If the girl isn't very talkative, fill the conversation with funny stories. The main thing is that she has the opportunity to insert her words. Compliment occasionally, but not too often and explicitly so that she doesn't think you are flattering. If she talks a lot, then react to her words by making it clear that you are listening to her.
Step 6
You can count on further communication with the girl you like if she looks at you, straightens her hair, smiles, asks questions, tilts her head. All of these non-verbal signs indicate that she likes to communicate with you.
Step 7
In any case, if the girl is doing well on the love front, she will not get to know you. If she showed interest and agreed to further communication, then you have excellent prospects. Most importantly, do not stand still, develop relationships.
