It happens that a colleague becomes the one and only. It is more difficult when it’s not just an employee working with you, but your boss. In this case, it is necessary to assess the situation and develop an action plan.
Prepare yourself
Before proceeding to active actions, it is necessary to assess the situation. Be sure to find out if your boss's heart is free. The secretary can tell you about this. Just ask questions in a subtle way. A social media page can also tell a lot about your boss. If it turns out that the man is married or dating someone, it is better to wait until the situation changes, or until your heart is occupied by another member of the opposite sex.
If you find out that your boss is free from relationships and commitments, find out what his hobbies and preferences are. This information will help you get closer to your boss, find a topic for a friendly conversation, and check if he is in general inclined to communicate with you outside of work. Just don’t pretend that you also love football if in fact you are far from sports. Such a lie will surely come out. It is better to look for common ground, common interests.
Take action
Until you know how your boss will react to your explicit initiative, test the waters. Send him signals of your sympathy. Gentle smiles, long glances will say everything for you. If your manager does not understand such hints or regards them as part of normal communication, you can move on to more proactive actions.
Try to linger a little in the boss's office every time, ask questions about the interior of his office, casually mention your hobby that he shares. If your boss remains oblivious to your increased attention, you may have chosen the wrong moment. If a man is seriously busy solving some work issues, he may not be up to flirting.
Show yourself at the corporate party. If, in an informal setting, your boss does not keep up a conversation with you and does not share your interest in himself, he may not be your man. Consider your outfit carefully. He should be sweet and feminine, but not flashy and defiant. Excessive sexuality can only interfere with the case.
Try to be close to your boss and have an unobtrusive dialogue with him. Joke and have fun, because you are at a party. Just be careful with alcohol, otherwise you can not only fail the whole plan, but also jeopardize your future work in this company.
Don't be too intrusive. If, despite all your attentions, the boss remains indifferent, stop your hectic activities. Just do not be sad that a young man you like did not notice you. Remember that people have different life circumstances. Maybe your boss has problems in his personal life, with his health. Plus, don't ignore the fact that you just might not be your boss's taste.
