Unfortunately, it is not uncommon for families to break up. As a result, questions arise: with whom to leave the children? Sometimes the father intends to take the child with him.
Necessary
- - certificates, testimonies and other evidence of the ex-wife's insolvency as a mother;
- - going to court.
Instructions
Step 1
Assess the situation soberly before giving in to your emotions. Think about whether you can give your child everything that he could receive from his mother: motherly love and care, female affection and tenderness. If only a feeling of revenge speaks in you, and you do not have sufficient grounds to deprive your ex-wife of her parental rights, you should not take revenge on the baby.
Step 2
If your ex-wife leads an antisocial lifestyle (suffers from alcoholism, drug addiction), she does not have normal conditions for raising a child, or she is sick with any dangerous mental illness, you have the right to demand that your common child be given to you for upbringing.
Step 3
In rare cases, women themselves voluntarily give their children to their ex-husbands. Therefore, you will have to go to court. There you will have to provide evidence of the ex-spouse's insane state, preventing her from fulfilling her maternal responsibilities. These may include certificates from medical institutions in which she is currently registered, or testimony of witnesses confirming the insanity and incapacity of the child's mother.
Step 4
Sometimes, when making a decision, the court takes into account less significant factors: a shortage of material resources, an insufficient amount of free time to raise a child, etc. But such indirect reasons are considered by the judges much less often. You can only win the case if you can prove that being with the mother seriously harms the interests of the child or poses a danger to his life.
Step 5
You should not engage in falsification of any certificates and testimonies, this is a criminal offense. In addition, by doing so, you will give your ex-wife and her lawyer a reason to present you in a far from good light in front of the judges and lose the minimum chances of the outcome of the case in your favor.
Step 6
The most sensible solution is to try to act for the good of the child, and preserve his right to communicate with both parents.
