Going to work with joy is something that many would like, but not everyone has. And it's not even the work itself, but the people who surround you there. Finding a common language with everything is not an easy task. It is difficult, but possible.
The first rule is not to be known as a lazy person in the team. Conversations like “why is he sitting and doing nothing, but here he has to plow like dad Carlo”, as a rule, arise one of the first and never lead to anything good. In addition, constantly show your competence, because this is a guarantee of some kind of authority and respect. If you periodically take the place of the person who talks about daddy Carlo, quickly get rid of this bad habit. Do not be jealous, the "do-nothing" is unlikely to ever be able to build a successful career.
If your coworkers annoy you with their shortcomings, hold back your idealism and turn on indulgence. Fortunately, these shortcomings are not yours, although, as you remember, in the eyes of others … Just avoid confrontations with these people based on their imperfection.
Do not judge, but you will not be judged - this is really an immutable truth, especially in office life. Don't judge a person by someone else's words. Because other people's words are, as a rule, a damaged phone. Try not to gossip and evaluate other people objectively.
Actually, do not gossip yourself. Criticizing other employees, and especially the management, is a thankless task. Even if the wrong actions of another person are obvious. If you cannot avoid such discussions, take an observant position. Be careful with words - even the walls have ears, and not all people are true angels.
Never bully colleagues. This is the place where you work, and do not sort things out and do not fight. At first, try to just keep an eye on people. After some time, they will show themselves on one side or another. It often happens that someone who initially seemed hostile to you will later establish the most trusting relationship with you at work.
However, don't expect everyone to like you. People usually discuss each other. But don't give it too much attention. If you do your job in good faith and do not indulge in verbiage, you have nothing to worry about. And remember, work is not your family. Just maintain a friendly environment and be yourself.
