The art of diplomatic relations is taught in special higher educational institutions. However, being a good diplomat is also essential in your daily interactions with colleagues, friends and family.
Instructions
Step 1
The character traits inherent in a good diplomat can be successfully developed in oneself. First of all, train your observation skills. Know how to distinguish truth from fiction and notice small details. Understand the point of view of another person who is different about you in the way of thinking and behavior. Be considerate of people.
Step 2
A good diplomat is one who perceives all obstacles in his path, be it a lack of understanding of the leadership or disagreements in the family, as a doctor. Those. as a person who does not seek to immediately cure all the patient's illnesses, but first determines the reasons for their occurrence. This approach allows you to reveal the essence of the problem. And then proceed to the actual solution of the situation that has arisen, using an objective cold calculation.
Step 3
A diplomat is considered a trusted friend and advisor to the government he serves. Use this principle in your day to day relationships. Know how to maintain good relationships even with those you don't like, but you need to make your plans come true.
Step 4
By nature, a diplomat should be reserved, responsive and modest. Therefore, to become one, be respectful, gentle and courteous to everyone without exception. Avoid categorical statements and do not allow yourself to show vanity. It can cause careless actions and tactless behavior, which is unacceptable for a diplomat.
Step 5
Develop a sense of proportion in everything. In the manner of dressing, in food, in conversations and actions. Extremes are foreign to diplomacy, be it character traits, words, or manifestations of temperament.
Step 6
Use your diplomatic skills everywhere. Restraint and the ability to negotiate will be useful for you to create harmonious family relationships, and will help you move up the career ladder. So you will have many friends and useful connections.
