It is no secret that more than half of registered marriages are dissolved within five years. This is evidence of the spouses' frivolity of the responsibilities that arise when they take an oath of allegiance to each other and create a family. Opinion polls show that many short-lived ex-partners say they should have been more patient and regret divorce. Therefore, if you have a desire to stop the divorce, do not hesitate: maybe all is not lost yet.
Instructions
Step 1
Even in the event that the legal divorce procedure has already begun and one of the spouses has filed a lawsuit with the court asking for divorce, the couple still has time to change their mind. One should not be guided by the fear of being left alone or being deprived of some material benefits that were provided by joint existence. An incentive to stop a divorce must be a conscious desire to be with this person, to live with him and have children from him.
Step 2
Consider what happened, what caused your family to be on the verge of collapse shortly after the wedding. Why the person, without whom you could not live or breathe until recently, turned out to be a stranger and almost an enemy to you? Don't look for reasons and don't blame him. First of all, analyze your behavior and attitude. A person cannot be changed, he can only change himself. It means that you yourself are to blame for the fact that now you treat your spouse differently.
Step 3
Try to set aside emotions, think through the conversation, prepare for it, and talk. Ask your partner to calmly analyze the situation with you and find out where you both could be wrong, and how you could change the situation. Do not blame him, do not use the pronouns "you" and "I", but more often say "we". Do not absolve yourself of the guilt, tell about your desire to understand him and why you are unpleasant about certain of his actions. Mutual conversation, an attempt to understand each other is already a sign that you are fighting for your happiness.
Step 4
If you are still not indifferent to each other, let the beginning divorce become for you a "point of return", pushing off from which you will return to the previous state of unity of souls and bodies, perhaps even at a new qualitative level. Don't go with the flow, put in the effort and fight for your family happiness. Remember that many couples experience relationship crises like these, they are natural. Stopping a divorce that you doubt is necessary is not a sign of weakness, it is a sign of growing up and wisdom in life.
Step 5
In legal terms, it is very simple to stop a divorce - you just need to withdraw your application or not appear at the hearing and notify the court about it. You can even get the state tax paid for the divorce back. Apply to the magistrate court with an application for a ruling on the return of the state duty and with this document go to the tax office.
