Unpreparedness for marriage and a frivolous attitude towards family responsibilities often become the true reasons for the dissolution of a marriage. More than half of those family unions that are concluded today are dissolved in a few years. There are couples who also made attempts to dissolve the marriage, but then were able to overcome the crisis together, refuse to divorce.
Instructions
Step 1
Even if the divorce proceedings have already begun, nothing is lost yet. Don't be in a hurry or get excited. After you become a plaintiff and file a divorce lawsuit in court, you still have time to think. Be honest with yourself and consider the situation impartially. It may turn out that the breakup is also your fault. Try to recognize your mistakes and omissions. Understand that in any marriage there are mutual responsibilities that must be fulfilled. What is the point of abandoning an existing marriage, if the next time the same situation can happen again.
Step 2
Talk to your spouse. Do this in a relaxed environment. You don't have to find out who is right and who is wrong. The purpose of such a conversation is to find out what happened and why your, such ardent love for each other did not stand the test. Together, discuss how you can fix the situation if you still value each other. This is especially necessary when you are responsible for the children.
Step 3
If you change your mind about divorce, write a waiver of the claim. According to Art. 39 of the Civil Procedure Code of the Russian Federation, you have the opportunity to withdraw your claim and waive your claims at any stage of the proceedings. Write your waiver to the name of the judge in charge of your case. Go to court and get the official form there. Fill it out, indicate the case number for which you refuse further proceedings. In the cap, after the address of the district court or magistrate, legibly and clearly indicate your last name, first name, patronymic, address of residence.
Step 4
In your application, be sure to indicate the reasons why you decided to withdraw your claim. After that, write a standard phrase that you are informed about the consequences of refusing a claim, which is provided for by article 221 of the Civil Procedure Code of the Russian Federation. Put your signature, give a transcript and indicate the date of writing the application. Send it to court by mail or personally.
